7 things men look forward to most in bed

　　First expectation: I hope she also has a sense of humor

　　Men are divided on this issue, those who think it's important and those who ignore it entirely. The former believes that a humorous atmosphere can help alleviate embarrassing situations, and adding jokes can spark the spark of love. It's not a bad thing if you occasionally seem stupid in bed. Let's laugh happily together, not at you or at me. How to position a man's humor ability - he can act in an ironic way, can get along with women happily, and has masculine charm. With such a person, sexual companionship is always a pleasure.

　　According to the latter, sex is a work (or a dramatic event). For him, sex is a mood, and mood is a very important event, similar to business behavior. He rarely spoke, either in bed or out of bed. In the drama-like passion of love-making, his behavior reminds you of a general going about his official duties. So, as a woman, you tell him there's a difference and you have to show your humor.

　　Second expectation: I hope she has an orgasm

　　Some data show that if a man finds that he cannot bring too much pleasure to a woman, he will feel sad. Even if he can enjoy a rich dinner and watch exciting football, he will not feel happy. As a woman, your passion and visible pleasure are the most essential things. But if a man doesn't realize it or doesn't take advantage of it, then you will still be very depressed. You want to say something like, everything you do is so wonderful, I don't think I can wait until night comes. This will change the awkward situation and lead him to where you want to go.

　　The third expectation: I hope she wears something sexy in bed

　　Who cares what she wears - that's always a secondary issue. said one man, speaking what most men were saying. But whether you are dressed sexy or not can often affect how long your orgasm lasts. And duration is often a concern for men. If men were asked: Do you like it if she dresses sexy when you undress her - most will admit that they do. A man who didn't care much about this replied: No matter what, it's fine with me, as long as she doesn't wear too much. There are indeed great differences on this issue, but it cannot be denied that clothing is a factor that cannot be ignored. Some men will become excited when they look at underwear and stockings.

　　Fourth expectation: I hope she has a normal sexual attitude

　　This factor is important. Sometimes men are surprised to find that women can be as sex-crazy as I am. Some women even come harder than men. According to some women: Oh, my God, I think about doing this kind of thing all day long. She said that she had this urge when she walked into the house and stepped on the carpet. Once she really did this kind of thing, she would be infinitely lingering, making the man's passion ripple, and every move made him feel just right.

　　A serious and stern-faced woman is definitely not good for sex, and men don’t want to see her being too wild and crazy. Men think it’s better for women to have one healthy Normal sexual attitudes. The man said, I hope she can have sex with me with a touch of humanity, but that's not entirely the case. Therefore, if a man is timid about having sex, the reason lies more in the woman's attitude problem rather than the man's physical problem.

　　Fifth expectation: I hope she won’t be silent in bed

　　Nothing increases passion more than expressing yourself appropriately in bed. Even a weak hissing sound is more arousing than making love in silence. Your words must not be full of lust, you must not show off your eloquence at this time, and you must not make a particularly loud sound, as long as it can be heard. Never say words like "please you" during sex. Many men say that the sound of a woman's voice makes him feel that sex is so wonderful that it makes them ecstasy at the critical moment and reaches the limit of pleasure. Even if she only made vague sounds with the tip of her tongue.

　　What words do men most want to hear during sex without silence? Through some guided questions and answers, some men said: Give me direction. Giving direction does not mean necessarily saying: Oh, here, here. Instead, encourage him to move forward in you at the right time. It's like being on the road, if you don't want to ask for directions, it's easy to get lost. Being without a sense of direction is a very scary thing in bed. The second type of sound a man wants to hear in bed is your screams or moans. For example, love me now and other lingering words. What's interesting is that it would be a taboo to say: We attract each other in public cultural terms. What men need is not polite compliments, but practical triggers. Women, get a hold of it.

　　Sixth expectation: I hope she will be comfortable

　　First, only when you feel comfortable will your sexual relationship with him improve. Women should relax and enjoy it as a delicious treat, which is more beneficial than worrying about your performance.

　　Second, being comfortable for yourself means we are all comfortable. Paying too much attention to your flaws will inevitably lead to a focus on your own body, rather than on our bodies. Covering ourselves under the quilt will only make us anxious about our sexuality, which will actually affect the effect of lovemaking. So don't worry about whether you look perfect in bed. Turning off the lights or not is not that important.

　　Compared with women, men are not overly picky about sex. But there are some details that you must pay attention to first, such as: What kind of actions can make him have another orgasm for you? If you take the initiative in sex, will anything change? Some details are often ignored by women, but they are precisely the core points that can make men crazy about you.

　　The seventh expectation: I hope she can be passionate about me

　　Hopefully she seems to be all for me and actually enjoys what I do. Some men don't seem to care much about sound and silent sex. They think the degree of enthusiasm and enthusiasm you have for him is crucial. Yes, men want women to be crazy about him. He is more willing to believe that it is him who makes you wet, and it is he who makes you moan, rather than the effects of your own sexual fantasies or other situations. As a man, he wants to know what he can do to bring you to your best. Sometimes even a seemingly innocuous word from you can make your sex life so much better.

　　Most men are unwilling to admit it, but on some issues, even some macho men will consider: Can I really please my partner in bed? However, sometimes the key to the problem is that women can and may pretend to move, rotate, push and pull during sex. Therefore, even the most confident men cannot confirm whether you really like the way he makes love. In fact, the more a woman can be passionate about a man's energy, the more she can reach the limit of pleasure under the guidance of a man.