Women, do you understand what men think?

　　1. When dating

　　Man: The date he hopes for is a leisurely time where he can enjoy delicious food and wine, and flirt with his girlfriend.

　　Woman: Your ideal date is a sweet and romantic interaction between the two of you, coupled with a constructive conversation about your intimate relationship.

　　Comment: Unfortunately, men don’t automatically switch from daily conversations to “deep” topics just because there are flowers and candles on the dining table.； In other words, he is unlikely to talk to you about his childhood and family, your future together, his ambitions, etc. all day long on dates.

　　In fact, what can trigger him to talk is usually the topic of your conversation (if he is interested), not the romantic atmosphere. Therefore, only by having a conversation on a platform that both parties agree on, can you hear what you expect to hear.

　　2. After the quarrel

　　Man: He hopes that after the argument is over, there will be a "truce" and everything will return to normal.

　　Woman: Although the direct dispute between them has ended, she still can't help but think about things and becomes more and more angry because he acts like nothing happened.

　　Comment: First, you must understand that he is not insensitive or apathetic. Basically, men’s concept is: Anyway, the quarrel that needs to be argued is over, let’s just “rebuild the old relationship”! However, it was impossible for him to say these words. Men's anger comes and goes quickly, so they return to normal faster than women after an argument.

　　Therefore, you might as well tell him that although the quarrel is over, your emotions have not calmed down yet.； In this way, he will understand that you are still more or less angry. Next, ask him to sit with you on the couch for a while, or go for a walk together.

　　3. After getting up

　　Man: All he thinks about is what will happen after he goes out, such as whether there will be a traffic jam on the way to work, whether the data requested by the boss is ready, or whether the meeting with the client can go smoothly, etc.

　　Woman: You hope they can talk more before saying goodbye, going to work, and even discussing after-get off work programs.

　　Comment: Try to start your day with something more practical and concrete! For example, eating breakfast and watching TV at the same time news Or listen to the radio—reports of weather conditions and traffic conditions can help his brain "warm up." As for the show in the evening, we can discuss it with him via text message after we get into the office.