Men are afraid of being rejected for sex

　　In order to maintain mutual passion and attraction, a man needs to get a clear message that a woman enjoys having sex with him.

　　Women love sex, but they ask for more than men do before they feel their desire. Men have never been keen enough to understand this because throughout their lives they have received so many messages that women don't like sex. Therefore, in order to maintain mutual passion and attraction, a man needs to get a clear message that she enjoys having sex with him.

　　According to general rules, men's interest in sex will reach its peak when they are seventeen or eighteen years old. During sex, the feelings of men and women are similar to the above model. ； Men can get excited quickly with just a little caressing, while women take longer. Naturally, a man will feel that a woman does not enjoy sex as much as he does.

　　The mother's attitude towards sex may also affect men. When he is young, he may think that sex is a bad thing if he is afraid that his mother will notice his growing interest in sex and girls. When he gets older and gets to be with the woman he likes, these past subconscious influences may surface and make him think, "I can't think about having sex with her or I'll be rejected." "

　　Past experience may not directly make a man lose interest in sex, but when a woman seems not interested in sex, he will be more sensitive and prone to feeling rejected. When a woman is not in the mood for sex, he will unconsciously think: "I know she doesn't want to have sex at all." "

　　There is an effective treatment for this tendency in men, which is for a woman to continuously convey the message that she likes sex to the man. A woman's acceptance of sprint love is the strongest message. Affirming and encouraging men to court is also a powerful and positive message.