Why are modern men becoming more and more feminine?

　　now neutral It may have become a popular trend in contemporary society, due to environmental pollution, hormone abuse, and the promotion of personality in some talent shows. male female Change has made men more feminine and women more masculine. What are the reasons that change people's nature?

　　Today's men are slender and weak, and their voices sound like girls. What's more, some even wear women's clothes on the streets to get pleasure, so that we cannot expect any masculine, thick, and intelligent temperament to be reflected. As long as a public figure's gender is correct at first glance, we can call him a man tolerantly; women are naturally Tian Xue’s savage girlfriend, as fierce and passionate as Brothers, even exaggeratedly plunders aesthetic resources with various "neutral styles"... We admit that this is a social trend, but when we prepare shovels to dig a hole for burial of words such as "showing off the outside and being wise" and "knowing and being sensible", we still sigh. Children are even more troubled. Children's small world reflects the big world of the future. The display of values ​​​​of the post-90s and post-00s generations makes adults tremble with fear. The standards have almost been lowered to the point where as long as you grow up without disaster or disease, no matter what you do, it is not a sin.

　　Today we are not talking about children, only mature men and women. A man cannot stand like a mountain or lie down like a river, without a stalwart image; a woman loses her elegance, virtuousness, temperament, and lack of femininity. The two probably influence each other. That is to say, men are not like men because women are no longer like women. If you say that I discriminate against women, you can reverse the positions of these two sentences. It is the same truth.

　　Because both men and women are actually squeezed out of shape by society. The pace of society is too fast, and everyone is being chased by the huge wheel of mechanization, processization, and fast food—and basically everyone has been caught up and run over. What does the huge life pressure and social pressure bring? distortion. Distorted values, distorted morals, and even distorted aesthetics. You can think of distortion as a kind of self-protection against the cruel reality: I first twist myself up and fight with my whole body. If there are pressures such as economic crisis, layoffs, earthquakes and tsunamis, forced marriages to make money, I can use a tight broom to clean them up mentally. If I really can't be conquered, I have already distorted my ideology to the point of numbness, and I will not be emotionally excited and heartbroken.

　　In our world, there are too many things that are both negative and positive. Many things are distorted, and then people become accustomed to them, then acquiesce, and then accept the distorted state as normal. This is the case when a man's feminine instinct is too strong or a woman's masculine consciousness is too strong.

　　Under this common mentality, our aesthetics will inevitably be distorted. For example, androgynous style has been promoted unprecedentedly, because this aesthetic attitude can vent the mental pressure of many men and women, and everyone can find their own haven in it and a sense of superiority from a high place to look down on all living beings. Don’t we need pure men and women?

　　Of course not.

　　Such as women. Femininity is still the most wonderful thing for a woman. Femininity is a woman's nature. At the moment when femininity is most effective, a woman's psychological state is the most peaceful and peaceful, and of course she is the happiest. No matter how strong a woman is, she cannot deny that she cannot get the greatest happiness in a strong state. The real happiness comes when she puts down her armor and becomes a real woman, when she smiles, her voice is gentle, and she is completely stress-free. Masculinity is also the most hormonal state in a man’s subconscious mind. He has a kingdom on his left and a beauty on his right (the kingdom and the beauty vary depending on the conditions. As long as it is earned through hard work, it will make a man full of satisfaction). His chest is as broad as his heart, and his wisdom and cultivation are as high. He is full of confidence and tolerance, and any difficulty will be stepped on as a ladder.

　　When a man pursues, he enjoys the happiness of a man's active love; when a woman is pursued, she enjoys a woman's right to be loved. Such a pure man and a pure woman, one is knowledgeable, sharp in thinking, decent and elegant, and is familiar with all high-level IQ challenges; the other is confident, sensitive to things, walking in the fame and fortune fair with ease, strong in the day, but not hiding the fragility of a woman at night. Character and ambition belong to the category of values ​​and worldview. There is no right or wrong, only differences. But I think this kind of proposition for men and women is the subconscious tendency of more people.

　　No matter when, people should maintain some of their own nature. The trend of male feminization is gradually spreading, and we should try our best to maintain social harmony!