My wife is pregnant and I can’t bear the desire, what should I do?

　　pregnancy male How to have sex in early pregnancy

　　After pregnancy, women's requirements for sexual life and sexual response decrease due to changes in endocrine function, early pregnancy reactions and concerns about the impact on the embryo. In the first 3 months of pregnancy, on the one hand, because the placenta is not yet mature, the placenta and Uterus The connection between the walls is not yet tight, and on the other hand, progesterone is not secreted enough to provide strong protection to the embryo. Having sex at this time may cause miscarriage.

　　healthy Tip: It is best to have sex in the first trimester of pregnancy 1-4 times a month. Postural movements, such as a normal position with the husband's arms straight, a cross position that does not compress the abdomen, or an expanded position, should be gentle and avoid severe stimulation. Husbands should care about and forgive their wives and, for the health of mother and child, try to minimize sex in the early stages of pregnancy.

　　How to have sex during pregnancy - the second trimester

　　In the second trimester of pregnancy, the placenta has formed and the pregnancy is relatively stable.； The symptoms of early pregnancy have also passed, my sexual desire has increased, and I can have a moderate sexual life. Moderate sexual intercourse during the second trimester is beneficial to the love and harmony of husband and wife. fetus of healthy development. Domestic and foreign studies have shown that a harmonious and affectionate relationship between husband and wife during pregnancy, and a happy mood for pregnant women, can effectively promote the growth and development of the fetus. The children born will be responsive, have language development and be healthy. However, sexual life does not mean that the more the better, it must be arranged reasonably, and attention must be paid to the posture and frequency of sexual intercourse to avoid adverse effects on the fetus.

　　Health Tips: This is the safe period, and it is advisable to have sex 1-2 times a week. Sexual intercourse can be done in a posture that the couple is accustomed to and comfortable with, but be careful not to compress the abdomen. The posture can be front, side, sitting, or back. Husbands should not stimulate pregnant women’s nipples. Pregnant women should pay attention to self-regulation and not be overly excited to avoid inducing miscarriage.

　　How to lead a sexual life during pregnancy - the third trimester of pregnancy

　　In the late stages of pregnancy, the pregnant woman's abdomen is obviously bulging, her body shape and weight have changed significantly, her body is bulky, her back is sore, and her sexual desire is reduced. The sensitivity of the uterus increases, and any external stimulation, even a mild shock, can easily cause uterine contractions, causing premature birth。

　　Health Tip: Couples should reduce the number of sexual intercourse as much as possible, preferably 1-4 times a month, to avoid accidents. The time of sexual intercourse should be shortened and the movements should be gentle. It is best to use the husband to hold the pregnant woman from behind to avoid abdominal pressure.

　　How should men have sex during pregnancy? After 36 weeks of pregnancy - sexual intercourse is strictly prohibited!

　　At this time, the fetus begins to descend, and sexual intercourse causes the cervix to open, causing bacterial infection, leading to premature rupture of membranes, premature delivery, and intrauterine infection.

　　Experts point out: For the health of mother and child, sexual intercourse must be absolutely prohibited. Couples can express their love through kissing and hugging to increase communication and enhance their relationship. Men during pregnancy should resolutely avoid sexual intercourse at this time.