The triple pressure that makes men miserable

　　Failure at work makes me lose face

　　Men always seem to put work first. Why is work so attractive to men? A man works first to make money, and another driving force is to win more and more respect. Once he fails at work, he will feel embarrassed, lose his sense of security, and become restless, anxious, and even have a bad temper.

　　Narration: Ah Mei, 32 years old, housewife

　　Recently, my husband always loses his temper for no reason when he comes home, which makes me very irritable. Taking care of the children and cleaning the house alone at home every day is boring in itself. From the moment he goes out, I start looking forward to his return. But after he got home, he said nothing to me and was even picky about his food. I felt very wronged. Last Saturday, after he came back, he started to find fault with me. I couldn't hold it in anymore and I had a big fight with him.

　　Yesterday, good friends from my husband's workplace came over for dinner. I heard from their words that my husband had not been going well at work recently, and I understood his bad mood. Looking at the hair falling out on his pillow every day, I know he is under a lot of pressure, but why doesn't he talk to me and wants to be alone in his heart?

　　Comment: Problems at work are also one of the common sources of stress for men. Many people come to consult female They all talk about the tension in family relationships and that the husband often loses his temper. One of these is that when a man encounters work pressure, because he is not "strong" enough, he compromises and suffers unfair treatment outside. After returning home, his wife often becomes the "scapegoat" for her husband to vent his temper. When a husband loses his temper for no apparent reason, the wife should either avoid the situation and let both parties calm down, or wait until the husband vents his bad emotions and then talk to him about what happened when he is in a calm mood.

　　Men should also understand that everyone will experience pressure at work, but the most important thing is whether you can adapt to the job. If you adapt to it, then the pressure at work will be the driving force for your progress, and you will face it calmly and find out the source of the pressure. If you really don't adapt to the job, you can consider changing jobs.