Why do men like to have ambiguous relationships?

　　Introduction: When a man is ambiguous, he will not say "I love you, but I don't love my wife" nakedly. Saying this can be defined as cheating. When a man is ambiguous, he will not leave his sick wife alone and date other women. If he does this kind of thing, it can be defined as cheating. A man who has not been caught having sex in bed will definitely say that he was just having an affair, but until the physical boundary is revealed, the man will psychologically deny it 100% of the time.

　　Why do men like to play ambiguously with women?

　　Letters from netizens:

　　My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 7 years. We were in first love, and I always thought I was happy. He didn't care about me when I was sick. I also endured it. Until two years ago, he was on QQ and his female My friend said that he was not in love with me but with her. Since that time, I have become very sensitive and scared. I often check his cell phone communications. I know that he and another girl often send text messages. I asked him who he was and he said he was a friend. But my intuition tells me not, but I don’t have any evidence.

　　Recently, I really discovered that he said on QQ that he really wanted to see that girl, miss her, and hug her. It was not me but her that he loved. He also left me with a high fever to meet the girl. I said, if you love her, stay with her. He said that he really loved me. He said it was because I always broke up with him at that time.

　　My suspicions grew stronger and stronger, making me feel like I was twisted inside. I love him very much, and I really want to trust him, but he rarely takes the initiative to hug me, kiss me, or hold my hand. Am I asking for too much? We are planning to get married. Now, he said that he is not in a hurry to get married, and I panic. It's scary to be in a relationship without knowing the outcome. Every time he sends a text message, it’s almost me who sends him a phone call. Shouldn’t I love him so much?

　　How can I feel that he loves me. How can I forget. What should I do. Thanks.