Do you know the six steps to safe sex?

　　6 steps to safe sex

Step 1　Ask the other party to use condoms correctly. Although 70% of Chinese people say they are acceptable without using condoms during sex, condoms' dual functions of disease prevention and contraception undoubtedly make them the most highly recommended contraceptive device among professionals. In addition, about 8% of the population is allergic to latex. If you happen to fall into this category, choosing a condom made of polyurethane that can be purchased in ordinary pharmacies will be the best choice. As for using condoms correctly, that goes without saying.

Step 2　Are you more demanding when it comes to sex? Don't worry. Understanding your true sexual needs is the second step to having safe sex.

Step 3　Choose a sexual partner who can accept your point of view: I would like to remind you that people’s sexual concepts are formed over a long period of time under the influence of living environment, educational background and other factors. Do not try to change the other person’s sexual concepts, and do not impose your own sexual concepts on the other party.

Step 4 Find out if your sexual partner is violent, unless you're into SM: This simple test recommended by psychologists will help you find out if your sexual partner is violent:

Question 1. Are his emotions polarized? Emotional polarization is a reflection of immature personality.

Question 2. Is he trying to keep you under his control? For example, he controls how you dress and how you live your life, maybe even to the point where you feel like you can't make decisions without him.

Question 3. What does he do when he is angry? Frequent threats to throw things, punch walls, break objects, etc. are dangerous signs that he lacks self-control.

Question 4. Does he come from a violent family? Children who grow up in violent families often learn to use violence to solve problems.

Step 5　Protecting your sexual privacy is a virtue. If you are not so desperate that you want to exchange sexual experience for money, or you really have unavoidable difficulties, protect and treasure your sexual privacy. Of course, if you and your sexual partner are both highly skilled and don't care about worldly opinions, that's another matter.