Six embarrassing scenes of male sexual panic

　　“One time I was with my girlfriend, and she told me that her ex-boyfriend was very sexy, and she told me in great detail, even where he had a hemorrhoid. Later, every time I had sex with her, another shadow would appear in my mind. I always felt that other men were stronger than me and could please her better. ”
　　
　　Six embarrassing scenarios of men’s sexual panic!
　　
　　Have you ever had such an experience? You and he were enjoying the passion and entanglement of love in bed, and suddenly the phone rang, and your mother's "Hello" made him jump from the bed to the sofa. He was so frightened that he couldn't recover for a long time.
　　
　　Although men always show that they have the natural ability to be fearless in the face of danger and will not panic in the face of anything, but men are also human beings, and they will sometimes tremble. Dr. Mike Schiller, a sexologist in Chicago, said: "Men will panic when something threatens their self-esteem, and sex is the foundation for men to build and maintain self-esteem. ”So during sex, if a man suddenly feels panicked and overwhelmed, it must be that you have done something inappropriate.
　　
　　So, what usually triggers a man’s sexual panic button, and how can you avoid such awkward moments?
　　
　　I'm afraid you won't respond
　　
　　Sex is the most intimate emotional and physical communication between lovers. It is a simultaneous dialogue between the spirit and the body. When making love, men always like to hear a few words of encouragement, or hear and see your clear response, whether it is your voice or body movements. If you keep silent and let him sweat profusely, as if you are leaving him in the sun, he will feel that your silence is a kind of protest, dissatisfaction or carelessness.
　　
　　Peter, a 30-year-old writer, said: “Sometimes my girlfriend and I suddenly become silent when we have sex, and I think I must be doing a bad job. So I started to think wildly and didn't understand where I was wrong, so I was completely out of mood. ”Some men say that when a woman's body no longer moves with their rhythm, they feel terrified, like swimming desperately in an unknown depth of sea. Mike, a 27-year-old teacher, said: “Sometimes we choose a good posture and feel completely integrated with each other without reservation, but she suddenly stops moving. I feel very strange and just want to call it a day. ”
　　
　　Believe it or not, sometimes it is your neglect that makes your man lose interest in an instant. Dr. Schiller said: "Deep in his heart, men always worry about not being able to satisfy their women. If he doesn't get your reaction in time, he'll immediately doubt himself. The best thing to do is to be honest about how you feel. If you like, feel free to moan happily or give him a gentle pat on the shoulder. If yelling isn't your style, move your body to his rhythm, like a waltz at his pace, and your spin will be his source of motivation.