Is it true that all men “love” bad women?

　　From ancient times to the present, nine out of ten men have been lustful. The so-called "food and sex" has given five thousand years of "gentlemen" a legitimate reason to be unbridled. There is no man who dislikes women, but what kind of woman is the most perfect woman in the eyes of men? Not only do women have different opinions on this issue, but even men also hold their own opinions and argue endlessly. indeed! Everyone has different scales and standards in their minds, so there are naturally many difficulties in measuring them. However, no matter how different people are, there are still some things in common. Let’s study together to see if it’s true that men all “love” bad women.

　　There is a line in "Sweet Honey" that Liming said to Maggie Cheung. When I heard it, I felt sad. In that movie, Maggie Cheung is definitely not a good woman in the traditional sense. She "lied" Liming into doing many things for her and even "earned" his hard-earned money, but Liming has always been stupid, doing everything for her and answering her every request.

　　Then one day, the two of them talked about who took advantage of whom, and Li Ming said: "It is better for you to take advantage of me more. ”Maggie Cheung was very surprised. She had always thought that Liming Que was being used by her for nothing because of her unscrupulous intentions. Then Liming continued: "You are the only friend I have in Hong Kong. If I don't let you take advantage of me, you will stop talking to me. Then, I won't even have a friend here. ”

　　In other words, Li Ming knew everything in his heart. He knew that she took advantage of his feelings for her, but he would rather be used by her than lose her. In Hong Kong, he was a man with nothing, not even a self-made man, struggling on the poverty line every day. If he refuses to let women take advantage of him, how can any woman be willing to be with him?

　　According to our normal reasoning, we would say that Liming should not fall in love with a woman like Maggie Cheung, because she is utilitarian, material, and good at using men. At least she is not as cute as Liming’s fiancée "Xiaoting" - Xiaoting is young, pure, beautiful and gentle, and Liming worked hard to make her Arriving from the mainland to Hong Kong, the two were childhood sweethearts and childhood sweethearts, and they were able to move forward steadily on the road of "lovers eventually get married", but why couldn't Lai Ming let go of Maggie Cheung? Why bother to tormenting herself all the way to the end of the world if she could just let go of her solid life with Xiao Ting?

　　When I was young, I always didn’t understand one thing: why a compatriot who most women thought was vulgar, vulgar, boring, and even a little evil, could be loved by a man, and that man was often very good! At that time, I would be stupid enough to lament for that man in my heart, feeling that he was pitiful. He was a good man who was deceived by a woman.

　　Thinking about it now, even if it was a lie, he knew it. He liked her, so he was willing to be deceived by her, that's all. Even many men will think, ah, this woman is willing to lie to me like this, which means that she is willing to put effort into me, so it is sweet.