What are the misunderstandings about men’s sex life?

　　First [Emotions affect sexual desire]

　　According to statistics, 95% sexual dysfunction It is psychogenic, and its sexual and physiological functions are completely normal. It is some incorrect ideas that harm originally normal men and women and ruin their newlywed lives.

　　First of all, newlyweds should maintain a relaxed and happy mood, and should not be affected by daily trivial matters and small disputes, and bring bad emotions to bed. This will not only affect the mood of the newlyweds and honeymoon, but also leave a shadow in the future.

　　Secondly, don’t have too high sexual expectations. When a person always pays attention to his sexual ability, he must have a strong sense of expectation, and the anxiety caused by this sense of expectation naturally inhibits the instinctive mechanism of sexual response, leading to sexual dysfunction. During sexual intercourse, the anxiety and tension caused by fear of failure suppress the natural expression of sexual function, and the suppression of sexual function just makes the sexual transaction fail. As a result, "anxiety - failure - more anxiety", "repeated battles and repeated failures, repeated failures and repeated attempts" form a vicious circle, which eventually leads to sexual dysfunction. Therefore, everything should be allowed to take its course, and the cultivation of the relationship between two people is the most important. When the love is strong, you can't help yourself, and you will naturally enjoy endless fun.

　　Second [Pay attention to sexual hygiene]

　　Before sexual intercourse, both men and women should pay attention to the cleanliness of their sexual organs. male The penis and scrotum should be washed and removed skin Dirt in the folds. female The vulva is close to the anus and is easily contaminated. It is rich in sweat glands and sebaceous glands and produces a lot of secretions, so it must be cleaned thoroughly. In addition, you should develop the habit of washing your hands before sexual intercourse to avoid urinary tract infections in women caused by caressing during intercourse. Women should urinate and clean their vulva immediately after intercourse.

　　Third [The frequency of intercourse should be moderate]

　　The original natural barrier of the vulva of newly married women is changed due to the beginning of sexual life. If sexual intercourse is too frequent, it will increase the chance of inflammation in the urinary and reproductive systems. Therefore, newlyweds generally have sex twice a week, so as not to cause dizziness, backache, leg pain, and mental fatigue the next day. The first sexual intercourse of a newly married woman may cause hymen rupture, bleeding and pain. Sexual intercourse should be stopped for a few days.

　　Fourth [Newlywed sexual emergencies and prevention]

　　Bleeding: Heavy bleeding often occurs due to excessive force during sexual intercourse, tearing of the hymen, and injury to large blood vessels. At this time, you can put clean toilet paper in the vaginal opening and press it. If the bleeding does not stop, you should take it out immediately. Prevention method: Women lie flat on their backs on the edge of the bed and raise their legs high. The man stands face-to-face between the woman's legs under the bed, so that the penis can pierce the hymen with the slightest force without causing severe pain and heavy bleeding.

　　Fainting during sexual intercourse: Excessive tension and excitement during sexual intercourse can cause paleness and fainting. At this time, sexual intercourse should be stopped, the pillow should be removed (with the head lowered), and you can wake up naturally after lying on your back for a while.

　　Rupture of corpus cavernosum of penis: should be removed immediately Hospital Make surgical sutures. The preventive method is to make preparations before intercourse, and do not withdraw too much when pumping, so as not to break the penis when inserting again.

　　Semen allergy: Women with allergies will develop rashes and vulva redness and swelling when exposed to semen. Use condoms during sex to prevent allergies.