Successful men’s criteria for choosing a wife

　　What we are talking about here is the requirements of successful men for women. It does not mean that women are in a second-class position and can be chosen by others.

　　We chose three different types of men with successful careers and happy families to conduct interviews. From them, we can learn to some extent what kind of wives successful men want.

　　She loves me but not money

　　Mr. A, an individual owner, owns 4 restaurants, is 1.78 meters tall, and is 40 years old.

　　Mr. A is also a talented person. Before going to overseas, he studied industrial economics and worked as a civil servant. He got married after he went to sea. My wife is very beautiful, she is a Beijing girl. After Mr. A got married, he discovered that his wife did not do any housework and spent money like water. When he came back late, his wife would nag her endlessly. She also brought his sister-in-law and brother-in-law to his home to settle accounts with Mr. C. They always said that he was having an affair. Mr. A gave her 400,000 yuan in anger and divorced her.

　　After the divorce, there was a queue of girls coming to see him, all of them with outstanding looks. Mr. A said: I can't tell which one is not for my money. Who really loves my self-made entrepreneurial spirit? Who can understand my habit of being very frugal even after I have money? I want to find a woman from a good family.

　　In fact, why don't I want to have my own home, my own children, and a wife who will grow old together and know each other well? I always think that if I go bankrupt one day, will she still be able to follow me? When I think about this, I think it is better to find an honest man from my hometown. I feel scared when I see those girls wearing short skirts.

　　Mr. A really married a girl from his hometown. This girl is 10 years younger than him. She has a high school education, average appearance, but is extremely virtuous. She takes care of Mr. A’s parents-in-law in the countryside, takes care of the housework, and gets monthly living expenses. She doesn’t even ask how much money Mr. C earns. Those girls who work hard to dress themselves up probably do Dream I didn't expect to be defeated in front of a girl from a small place. Successful men don't dare to trust them too much. Or clear water produces hibiscus, and natural carvings are more competitive.

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　　Beauty depreciates in the face of "taste"

　　Mr. B, the chairman of both the Mainland and Hong Kong offices of a national group company, is 50 years old, 1.79 meters tall, and has a creampie type.

　　Q: Do you want your wife to be beautiful?

　　Answer: Of course!

　　Question: Is your wife beautiful?

　　Answer: Not pretty!

　　Q: Then why did you choose her?

　　A: Because I was not a successful person at that time. If I were to choose again now, I would choose something beautiful.

　　Q: So do you think beauty comes first?

　　Answer: Of course not! He must first be considerate, have good taste, be able to talk to me, and understand me. Without these, I would definitely not want it no matter how beautiful it is.

　　Does she have a career?

　　Answer: No, I don’t think so. Women with successful careers must be stronger. Strong women have stronger personalities, which makes them more tiring to interact with.

　　Question: Do you hope she can work and run a household?

　　Answer: Not necessarily, as long as she is pure and a little coquettish, it doesn't matter.

　　Q: Do you hope that she can handle her family and her own affairs independently?

　　Answer: Of course, but it can be tolerated if it is not possible.

　　Question: So what should you do if you encounter adversity and need her to help you through it?

　　Answer: Silence!

　　Question: What kind of woman do you hate the most?

　　Answer: A woman who is always dissatisfied, always complaining, and dissatisfied with everything and everyone around her.

　　When interviewing Mr. B, he first closed the door of his office, probably not wanting the young people in the company to hear his true thoughts. Since this was not the first time we met, the conversation was relatively casual.

　　Mr. B is also from the north, but he has the characteristics of a southern man. He is very family-oriented, takes the children to class, and takes care of the elderly on both sides. Mr. B’s wife is a childhood sweetheart who grew up together. She later taught English in a school and returned home to be a full-time wife in recent years.

　　Mr. B did not directly answer whether he was satisfied with his current wife. However, their marriage is very stable. I think his wife must basically meet his requirements. What he calls "taste" actually has a very deep meaning. What is taste? Taste is not something you are born with.

It is not something that can be learned overnight. It is the brilliance of humanity that emerges at any time after years of accumulation of bit by bit knowledge and education. Young ladies, are you ready?