In fact, men care most about women’s past

　　The so-called "Answers to Troubles" in newspapers often appear with eye-catching headlines - "Should I tell him about the past?" ”It's best not to tell him. In fact, the most ideal situation is to tell him everything frankly, and then marry him after he fully understands it.

　　Do men care about women's past? The answer is yes. On the surface, men always speak in a high-sounding way, saying "I won't argue with you about that..." so that they force you to "shake up" all the trivial matters. However, when he is drunk or feels useless, he will bring up these things and accuse you. From this point of view, it is better not to be too honest with him, otherwise, he will become a "time bomb" that will explode at some point!

　　Therefore, I advise all female , it is best to avoid excessive "honesty", unless you have "terrible" experience, otherwise, when you encounter a man's "torture", you might as well pretend to be shy and say to him - "...You are the first man I really fell in love with!" Because the fourth reason why a man wants to "torture" you is here, he wants you to affirm it. Sometimes, men "torture" you just to hear this sentence!

　　male The spirit of breaking the casserole and asking the truth is really disappointing. Where did this habit come from? After entering a relationship, women will not inquire about the man's past. However, men try their best to extract "confessions" from women. Why is this?

　　First, this just proves that men are no less jealous than women. Those who think that jealousy is a "patented product" of women are overestimating men. In fact, male jealousy is also worth seeing! 

　　Second, there is a wonderful thought in the man's heart, that is - he has always wanted to test whether he has the right to ask her. On this point, women are different. Once a woman has a boyfriend, she will start to pay attention to his present and future, but she does not really care about his past. “Because he is a man! It is inevitable to have various experiences. If you care about everything, can you still stay with him? ”Women are more tolerant of men. Because the social habit of not pursuing men's "games" has been accepted by her unconsciously.

　　Third, men who like to ask women for "confessions" are not only motivated by jealousy but also by a strong desire for exclusivity. He is still not satisfied with the current state of possessing "her", and thinks in his heart that she should also be monopolized in the past. Once this kind of possessiveness is high, even if a woman is close to a family friend, he will feel useless and even want to possess her every minute and second. This kind of psychologically serious situation will become like Darren Dio's novel "The Triumph of Death", in which both parties will die for love and possess each other permanently.

　　However, society cannot condone women's debauchery and indiscretion. The influence has affected even some men who claim to be progressive and trendy, but they still "care" about this in their hearts, so that when a man reaches the stage of looking for a future partner, he begins to ask questions about women.

　　At this time, some men just ask briefly. However, some men will keep asking endless questions. It all depends on the character of the man asking the question. If it is a gloomy man, it will be enough for you! He will wrap around you like a snake. After you tell him something, he will ask another question. After you answered, he asked a third question... just like this, he launched a fatigue bombardment on you.  

　　“In my life... this is the first time I have ever truly loved a man. How could I be so in love with him? Even I was surprised..." I believe that no sentence can make a man feel more elated than this sentence. After hearing a word from you, he will become excited, just like baby Generally, it is at your mercy, because, "Proving what you want to believe" is a great thing.